The biggest thing holding you back from greater success most time,
is something you might not even be aware of.
Some call this
belief an “iceberg beliefs” and they could be major obstacles that you don’t
even realize.
These limiting beliefs walled
us in and continually place a ceiling on our potential. What’s more, as success
begins to evade us because of these limited thoughts, we unknowingly strengthen
them. It’s as if they look back at us to say, “I told you so.” In this manner,
limiting beliefs are self-reinforcing.
They grow stronger and we feel weaker and less empowered to find success. It’s understandable that if they go unchecked for too long we can begin to feel deep frustration and hopelessness which can eventually lead to anger, self-hatred, and even depression. But it is possible to put our limiting beliefs in-check and find the freedom to pursue our purpose and maximize our potential.
To root out these limiting beliefs and get rid of them, try these five steps:
Identify Your Limiting Beliefs
The first step to rectifying
any situation is to get a clear handle on what’s wrong. It’s no different here.
To overcome your limiting beliefs you first need to shine a spotlight on them.
Most of your limiting beliefs will be relatively easy to identify. They should
be—these are the types of beliefs you regularly beat yourself up over, after
all. In 1 Samuel 17: 1-50, David identified what others failed to identify and
overcome Israel challenge.
Once you have your limiting beliefs identified make sure to write them down. There is something about “seeing” our problems in a tangible way that empowers us to better respond to them. In some cases, they begin to immediately lose their effectiveness over us just because we can see them for the illusions they are.
Brian Tracy buttress this point when he said “You begin to fly when you let go of self-limiting beliefs and allow your mind and aspirations to rise to greater heights.”
Acknowledge Them
Having the ability to view our
limits helps us advance to the next step, acknowledgment. In this phase, we
don’t just see our limiting beliefs in simple black-and-white—we acknowledge
them for what they are, the harm they have done, and admit that we have taken
part in their creation.
It’s almost as if we can have a
dialog with them. By doing so we open the lines of communication and, as we all
know, communication is crucial for any breakthrough. This step helps us
understand our limiting beliefs better, allowing us a clearer path moving
forward.
It is also an especially critical step because by acknowledging our responsibility, we empower ourselves to change. No one ever gains victory over problems without taking responsibility for having them or for doing the work to resolve them. This is what David did that enable him safe
Confront The Beliefs
We can only conquer our
limiting beliefs by confronting them. The reason they grow so troublesome for
us in the first place is simply that they go unchallenged. We often “assume”
them without question.
Rather than deal with the struggle of this confrontation we develop an almost co-dependent relationship with them. We guard our limiting beliefs and justify them if they are ever questioned. But our beliefs will continue to grow and strengthen unless we challenge them. In 1 Samuel 17, David challenged Goliath and at the end, he defeated Goliath.
If this is a difficult process for you to do by yourself, a counselor or coach can be helpful. If not with a professional, then at least let your beliefs be open to scrutiny by a trusted friend or significant other.
With your written list, work through as many reasons to call B.S. as you can think of. Write them out and present your argument. This doesn’t have to be a quick process, take as much time as necessary to make your case. Especially with the help of another person, you will begin to see all of the ways in which your beliefs aren’t true and find all of the reasons you need to believe you can succeed.
Replace Them with Unlimited Beliefs
To move forward effectively,
you can’t just drop your limiting beliefs and get back to life as usual. In
order to reach your most powerful life, you’ve got to replace the old, limiting
beliefs with new, empowering ones.
If one of your limiting beliefs
was, “I don’t deserve success because of xyz,” you need to replace it with, “I
do deserve success because of abc,” and then list out all the reasons why.
Read Philippians 4:13.
It’s such a simple step but so many people neglect it. They’re just so happy to be rid of their old limiting beliefs, I guess. But what good is it to just be neutral? You’ve got to create an upgrade for every belief you just tore down. You’ve got to replace the limited ones with unlimited.
On that list, you created earlier, or on a new page if you’ve run out of room, write out your empowering, replacement beliefs. Keep going until each one is now optimized with a belief that removes those old limits you placed on yourself.
Darren Rowse said, “Do the uncomfortable. Become comfortable with these acts. Prove to yourself that your limiting beliefs die a quick death if you will simply do what you feel uncomfortable doing.”
Use Your New Beliefs To Find Success
You’ve got just one more step
to go and that is to implement your new beliefs. Put your full faith in them as
if they will succeed because they will. Use your fresh, new enthusiasm to push
you through to success in areas where you only saw limitation before.
You will not fail because when we truly believe we are capable of success that is what we achieve. Be encouraged—every new success you have will only strengthen your beliefs. Remember 1 Chronicles 4:10 "Jabez cried out to the God of Israel, "Oh that you would bless me and enlarge my territory! Let your hand be with me, and keep me from harm so that I will be free from pain." And God granted his request".
In everything you do, identify the source of life and acknowledge Him to make your success sweet.
Congratulations, you are now on your way to living your most powerful life!
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5 Steps You Must Take To Overcome Your Limiting Beliefs
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